How to write the perfect online dating profile?
One of the trickiest parts getting started with online dating is making your dating profile. To help you out, Bambii is here to give you quick tips on what makes them great.
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Show her that you’re not willing to settle for ANY woman, you’re out there looking for the right woman.
1. RELAX, DON’T TRY TO SELL YOURSELF.
The world of online dating is filled with guys who are desperately seeking out ANY attractive girl. These guys provide no challenge to women and as a result, women find them boring. So if you want to get a girl’s attention online and even get her chasing you, show you’re not like others. Show her that you’re not willing to settle for ANY woman, you’re out there looking for the right woman. Show her that if a girl is going to win you over, she’s got to be special.
Take the time and figure out exactly what you want in a woman.
2. DON’T DEFINE YOURSELF. GIVE REASONS FOR YOUR WORDS.
Now, this starts before you even begin online dating. Before creating an online dating profile, take the time and figure out exactly what you want in a woman (her personality, hobbies, values, etc).
Ask them what they think about you, how they see you. What do they value in you.
3. THINK SMALL. BE SPECIFIC ABOUT WHO YOU ARE.
Even if you are the CEO of a huge company, it may be a good advice to hold back a bit and not to brag with that in your online portfolio. You may think it looks good but you will just attract the wrong kind of girls. Girls that are not interested in you as a person but in you as a subject – because of your position or your money. A good advice in gathering information about yourself is asking your friends. Ask them what they think about you, how they see you. What do they value in you. You may be surprised what they come up with and knowing why they like you as a person is something you may benefit from in adding this to your profile.
Girls don’t want to be categorised. They are more into feelings, romance and values.
5. BE REASONABLE. DON’T LIST YOUR REQUIREMENTS FOR A GIRLFRIEND.
Girls don’t want to be seen as products in a catalogue that men order based on their requirements. Don’t think that if a girl sees your dating profile, that you are looking for a girl with your preferred measurements, thinks “Hey, that’s me, I am going to contact him, we have a match here.” Girls don’t want to be categorised. They are more into feelings, romance and values – Try: “I am looking for outgoing, fun loving, romantic girl” – something like this will win women’s hearts.