How to write the first message!
In this era of digital communication a lot of guys and gals meet online. But it’s important not to mess up that very first message while contacting a lady of your interest.
1. QUALITY, NOT QUANTITY MATTERS!
Do not spam me with the regular “Hi, how are you?” twenty times a day. Rather think through and interesting message to grab my attention! Write something that is worth reading. Girls get a lot of messages throughout the day, but they only reply to the ones which have the quality! So focus, guys!
Do not spam me with the regular “Hi, how are you?” twenty times a day.
2. TALK ABOUT COMMON INTERESTS AND NOT LOOKS!
Please don’t send messages like “you look hot” or “I like your smile.” Those are just creepy. Never ever would I reply to any ping of that sort. It’s better to write about something we have in common that you noticed in my profile. Mutual love for cooking, jogging, knitting – whatever it is! Such messages make me feel that at least a guy took time to go through my profile instead of sending the same message to all the chicks.
Please don’t send messages like “you look hot” or “I like your smile.” Those are just creepy.
3. KEEP IT SHORT AND SIMPLE
Do not write essays from the very first time you contact a girl. Keep it catchy and short. Not all girls have the patience to scroll down the memoirs you write. Make sure the princess you chose to contact does not fall asleep half way through your letter.
Do not write essays from the very first time you contact a girl. Keep it catchy and short.
4. RE-READ YOUR MESSAGE BEFORE SENDING
Typing mistakes and misspellings are a real put off for many girls! I am not a grammar nazi, but there are many who would ignore the “howz” and “wats” in your message. So read it before your send it!
Typing mistakes and misspellings are a real put off for many girls!
