We all know how it ended for Adam & Emma in No Strings Attached, so if you tell me that there ever are no emotions attached, you’d be lying. But if you are dead serious about just being Casual here are some rules that need to be followed in the popular “One Night Stand!”
Ah, modern-day relationships, a boundless discussion topic. A part of today’s relationships is the famous ‘hook-up’ & ‘one-nighter’ lifestyle. Nonetheless, this culture is booming in today’s time. It surely isn’t the same as the 90s romances sitting at coffee houses, bumping in theatre, having a flirtatious conversation, and then making it to the bed. With dating apps in the market & swiping right for wham-bam-thank-you ma’am is easily accessible. However, when things come this easy, they also start to get complicated. A one-night stand can indeed spice up your single life if you have clear intentions. In fact, Studies have shown how these nights of passion have turned into full-blown relationships that last more than the ‘happy’ ones you know presently. We believe whatever it is if you have zero emotions for the person you just met or don’t want to take things further being a nice human being is important. This might come out as a surprise but a one-night stand also has etiquettes that need to be followed. Yes, rules! As we make sure to be the only guide you carry, here we have some rules that one must follow to make the night a ‘hit’ and not ‘miss’.
With dating apps in the market & swiping right for wham-bam-thank-you ma’am is easily accessible.
To be on the same page
First things first, if you’re genuinely looking for ‘fun’ then the casual culture is for you, but if you bring feelings into the situation, it will mess things up. Having clear thoughts is the key. Make sure you know the other person’s thoughts before getting into it. Here’s a piece of advice if you think you’ll catch feelings, it’s better to back off. To display facts a study proves, “our biological minds are supposed to integrate sex with emotions, especially in the case of women.” Therefore, guys at least make this your responsibility even if she means nothing to be clear from the start about where you stand before jumping in bed and later leaving without saying so much as a goodbye.
To display facts a study proves, “our biological minds are supposed to integrate sex with emotions, especially in the case of women.”
Better be safe than sorry
Here is where those condoms men carry all the time in their wallets come into use. It’s a request to not go ahead and have unprotected sex. Darling, you don’t want to catch sexual health issues or get pregnant just to have one fun night of your life. Not just that, you don’t want to end up pregnant. An Playing on comfortable ground
Know Boundaries
Even if it’s a casual thing, knowing each other’s boundaries remains constant. If you want to try new sexual kinks in bed with the person, you should communicate first and ask if they’re comfortable doing the same. Not to forget, NO means NO. So, if you hear the person saying this at any time during your physical interaction, make sure to listen.
Darling, you don’t want to catch sexual health issues or get pregnant just to have one fun night of your life.
Being human
Whosever place you guys choose to go, make sure to make the person feel cool when they’re inside. Offer them something to eat or drink and not just treat them like an animal, make sure to have the decency and good manners.
Ghosting is a No-No
The hardest of all to ghost or not to? The answer is a strict no. You should never leave a person on reading, ghosting sucks. If you had a good time and wouldn’t mind doing the same again, tell them and if you didn’t, drop a polite message saying, “Last night was fun, I do want to leave this at a first date and wish you nothing but the best” will bring you no harm. One thing to avoid doing is being clingy, remember they aren’t your ask so don’t call them in the middle of the night to say you miss them. Don’t assume, they are interested in you instead learn & know.
Dropping a polite message saying, “Last night was fun, I do want to leave this at a first date and wish you nothing but the best” will bring you no harm.
Also, some have an idea of a one-night stand as never seeing each other again, but if things were good between you guys and both mutually saw chemistry, there is absolutely nothing wrong is meeting again and having a fiery night of passion.
Lastly, the only advice we’d give is to make it count and fully enjoy the night. We in every wish our hoping you get great pleasures and orgasms. Happy One-Night!
