Dr Mojo: Your Sex Questions Answered (December 2018)

After I broke up with my girlfriend, I have been my own best friend in bed. Now I like this girl and we hooked up but did not find it exciting. Do you think I have lost my mojo, Dr. Mojo?

Ankush Marwaha, Jaipur

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Listen buddy, I am all for men being self-sufficient, as long as it does not affect their bedroom activities. It is healthy for you to channel your sexual energy with a real woman. While getting handsy with yourself can fulfil your short term needs, you need some real action for your long term sexual satisfaction. So get your hands off yourself, and start wooing women.

THREE’S A CROWD

I had a threesome with my friend’s friend. She now has feelings for me and I am not into her at all. How do I tell her politely without hurting her? Should I pass on the message through my friend?

T. Vishwanathan, Bengaluru

Tell you what mate, the only people who communicate via messengers are sissies and children. Someone or the other catches feelings after a hookup. Tell her you enjoyed the threesome but are not really looking for anything else. Don’t ghost the person or avoid them in order to avoid an uncomfortable conversation.

DOUBLE BONANZA

I am big on porn but my wife is not. How should I pique her interest so that we can both enjoy it?

Ravish Sinha, Lucknow

It’s a smart idea to discuss the issue with your wife. Your wife may have reservations about porn for a variety of reasons but that does not mean you cannot try and change her mind. If she’s up for the experience, try and watch the kind of porn she enjoys and be open to her viewpoints. Porn can be a great addition to your foreplay routine but don’t get too carried away and take too much inspiration, since it’s often scripted and unrealistic.

Aman Kaushik, Delhi

Well well… you have quite an imagination my friend. Most of us have a set of perverse/kinky thoughts that we don’t express. As long as you are not cross-dressing and wearing a wig, you should be fine. Keep your feminine side hidden until you find someone who enjoys role reversal and is up for some BDSM. Then you can cross the line and fulfil your fantasies.

THE SERIAL IMPERSONATOR

I have a problem. I become a completely different person after a few drinks. I introduce myself as someone else and hook up. The problem begins the next day when they try to find me on social media and can’t find common friends. How do I break this habit?

Lokesh Ghai, Mumbai

Look boy, getting shit faced and talking crap holds true for a majority of the human population. However a propensity for pathological lying and impersonation can land you in some serious trouble. In my experience this kind of behavior stem from feelings of inadequacy and low self-worth. Schedule an appointment with a therapist and get your issues fixed pronto !

From the December 2018 issue of FHM India.