A Complete Guide for When Your Lady says, “Let’s Do Dirty & Spicy Things Together.” We Haven’t Forgotten the Gifting Part as Well, Read On!
Our morals, “make love when you can, as its good for you.” Sex of all things is damn exciting and believe it or not it does reduce stress, makes you happier, and let’s not skip the part that it feels incredible. Spicing things up in the bedroom makes sure your sexual routine has lasting effects on your health and wellbeing. We are pretty sure everyone madly in love isn’t having passionate sex each time around. That being said, we are a rescue to make sex more desirable.
Over the years we have been bringing to you ways that can make your lady moan loud, from sex positions, pleasure toys, role play to understanding orgasms, bondage sex, even dressing up, and more we have covered it all. Don’t worry, we won’t run out of ideas when it comes to sex. For the month of love or lust of gratifying sex, we are back with some tips to get erotically charged.
The month of love, February gets us to level things up in the bedroom since sex and Valentine go hand in hand and all your woman needs this month are orgasms. Make sure you’re well prepared, stick with us and learn some fresh tips to make the most of this year’s sex holiday!
Take an exert from one such erotic novel. “She sat on the bed, took my hand, and brought it under her dress. She was not wearing panties….”
Reading sex stories
Who knew bedtime stories that were usually read to put kids to sleep are now rather more intimate and help spice things up in the bedroom? Reading erotic can help a woman fantasize and you can know what turns her on. Make sure to read slowly, as she visualizes while you read. If you don’t believe it’ll work, let’s take an exert from one such erotic novel. “She sat on the bed, took my hand, and brought it under her dress. She was not wearing panties. My hand felt the warmth of her vagina. It was deep, warm, and very wet. My fingers were all but sucked inside.” It did something to you, right? That’s our point, use your hands on her body, not missing the erogenous zones while reading and there will be the best sex you’ve ever had!
Food in the bedroom is…hawt!
Mixing sex with food is the best foreplay ever. Yes, it can get messy, but sex is supposed to be messy & dirty. It’s really how you do it, try leaving the OCD side of yours for a while and look for foods that turn you on. Go for more practical food and not directly a shellfish. Have you heard of Nyotaimori? It is basically an act of eating sushi off a naked body. Then there is the classic whipped cream, this item can never go wrong. With its sticky consistency, it stays put on erogenous zones and not to forget its yum. Try spraying it off on your woman’s nipples and licking it, you can have delicious organismic sex. One last example, is chocolate syrup, the oldest in the book and yet the most efficient. This time try writing messages of love on your partner’s body with the syrup & thank us later!
As for the settings, make it a secret playroom for the day just like Mr. Gray had in 50 shades. Light groupings of candles, make room for sex toys, change the lightning.
Secret sex playroom
Turn your room into a fantasy room after you’re done exchanging each other’s fantasies. Take it from us writing down all your fantasies you wish to explore with your partner and handing them over will make them want you butt naked in bed. As for the settings, make it a secret playroom for the day just like Mr. Gray had in 50 shades. Light groupings of candles, make room for sex toys, change the lightning. Also, don’t forget the blindfolds. To give it a romantic touch, you can spread rose petals on the bed, add some wine into the celebration!
Nothing is as erotic as when you remove sexy lingerie from your woman. A note saying, “Wear this tonight, to make sure I can’t keep my hands off you tonight”
Sex-games
Healthy competition can make your sex life even more interesting. Remember how our favorite couple, Chuck and Blair were so into the sex games, role play, or getting caught and serving the punishment in bed. Well, we surely have discussed that in the past, but for valentine’s we recommend after your dinner date when you get back home, build the sexual tension by playing some card game, sexual couples’ trivia, and board games that make the foreplay last long and more pleasurable. Watch tempting movies from the 90s like boogie nights, black swan, wild things & more, and later re-enact some hot scenes!
Sexiest Gift for ‘her’
Gifting lingerie is always a nice idea. Nothing is as erotic as when you remove sexy lingerie from your woman. A note saying, “Wear this tonight, to make sure I can’t keep my hands off you tonight” and leaving that with a sizzling lingerie piece is the ideal gift. Here are some options to choose from by brands that are better than the rest!
By- Victoria Secret
By- Savage X Fenty
By- La Perla
By- Coco De Mer