There is no shyness in sex and neither in asking questions about it. We are here to answer all your sex related questions. So, Shoot your shot!

 

Question 1: It turns me on to see someone pleasuring themselves. Is this normal or should I consult a doctor?

Answer 1: It is absolutely normal for you to be turned on while watching someone pleasure themselves. The phenomena is called ‘voyeurism’. Wondering what it is? “Voyeurism is a term referring to getting sexual excitement from watching others when they are naked or engaging in sex acts.”, as said by a CalExotics sexologist.

If you are acquainted with voyeurism, chances are that you like to see your partner masturbate or touch themselves in front of you or even with another person. It generates a feeling and excitement of looking but restricting to touch. It is not a serious issue. You can talk to your partner about this before you indulge in any sexual activity and it will solve things out for you.

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It is absolutely normal for you to be turned on while watching someone pleasure themselves.

Question 2: I am sexually aroused by the idea of being seen naked or engaging in sexual activities with others. I have heard somewhere that there is a term for it. Can you tell me what that is?

Answer 2: The term you are looking for is ‘Exhibitionism’. Opposite to Voyeurism, Exhibitionism is a “sexual kink which makes a person feel sexually aroused at the idea or reality of being seen naked or engaging in sexual activity by others.” It is like you love being the center of attention while engaging in with your partner. Moreover, it is completely normal.

However big the term is, it does not mean any harm to your sex life. All you need to do is make sure that your partner is not affected by this. For doing that, healthy communication can help. Ask your partner about their boundaries and share yours with them.

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It is like you love being the center of attention while engaging in with your partner.

Question 3: Me and my girlfriend have been in a relationship since 4 months now. We are quite sexually active however, she has to move out of the city for a year. we wish to indulge in sexting but are a little weird about it. What is the best way to start sexting?

Answer 3: Sexting is quite personal thing. People have different perspectives about it depending on their experiences. The first thing to do before sexting is to ask your partner if they are comfortable in doing it. Consent is always important. Then discuss with your partner how do you want to go about it.

Many times people also like to be engaged in roleplay or other games while sexting. You can always talk about these things with your partner and move on along your decision. The best way to start sexting is by talking to your partner and coming to a conclusion by mutual discussion.

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The first thing to do before sexting is to ask your partner if they are comfortable in doing it. Consent is always important.

Question 4: Once while having sex, my girlfriend asked me about my dream celebrity fuck and I didn’t know how to answer. When I told her who it was, she started acting like that person. Moreover, it turned me on. Is this cheating?

Answer 4: This cannot be called cheating. It is a common thing to do while having sex, mostly because it spices things up in the bedroom. Talking about an unattainable fuck can turn you as well as your partner on in a healthy way.

It also gives way for fun without any dramatics or jealousy involved.  Plus, you are not cheating if your partner is aware about the circumstances and has their consent in the matter. Thinking about an unattainable fuck while having sex is a common practice that people like to indulge in from time to time. It keeps the spark of your sex life alive and burning and even helps you climax. So, don’t think so much the next time this happens and enjoy it with your partner.

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You are not cheating if your partner is aware about the circumstances and has their consent in the matter.

Question 5: I like to read erotica and comics much more than I like to engage in sex. Will this affect my sex life in any way? I want to try out the things I read in real life as well.

Answer 5: Many people like to read erotic novels, stories and comics in order to drive pleasure out of it and it is a very common practice. It does not make you any less normal than others. Along with this, it is also normal to want to try the stuff you read in real life.

You can try it out by talking to your partner and asking their consent on it is the thing is new and requires some extra care. Doing this will not affect your sex life in any way and talking to your partner about stuff like this will only improve it.

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Many people like to read erotic novels, stories and comics in order to drive pleasure out of it.

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