Tease Her Until She Is Begging For It

If you’re always in the mood for ‘hot dirty sex’ let us introduce you to a contrasting technique that can change your sex life; Tantric Sex! It is not your usual wham-bam, loud and crazy sex, but tantric orgasms are still a thing that helps you connect with your partner on a great level.

There’s no rocket science to this technique but Tantric sex is part of Tantra, an ancient Indian tradition that influenced both Hinduism and Buddhism. It simply means intimately connecting with your partner by using breath, slower touch, energy, and delayed orgasm by activating all the sexual energy.

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Remember the time when you were vaguely thinking about prolonging erection of your guy, well that’s what Tantric sex kind of does, but there’s more to it. Many also get confused between Kama Sutra & Tantric but let us clear this, Kama Sutra is about tremendous sex positions, and on the other hand Tantric Sex is about increasing intimacy and expanding the energy to reach a higher and more intense form of ecstasy when in those positions.

Did you know Tantra can actually help men suffering from premature ejaculation since it’s a slow process and does not involve any performance pressure. Try it out for yourself!

There is of course no rulebook to Tantric Sex but if you man has given in a thumbs up to practice a more intense, satisfying form of sex, we have some steps or rather tips that might help. Keep reading if you are into, long, slow and soul-connecting types of sex that can improve your intimate communication with your partner!

You can think of Tantric Sex as teasing each other with heavy breath, slow kissing, or as intimate, clothing-optional yoga that can or will eventually lead to sex. One thing to remember here is this technique requires both partners to worship each other. Building the arousal through heavy breathing, and maybe massages is the goal. A pro tip when practicing Tantric Sex; try to slow your breath as you approach orgasm, with this the feeling will last longer and will be more intense. Let’s dive in and see how to set the scene to lead to unbelievable sex.

Center Around Breathing

Once you’re done setting the vibe of the room with some scented candles and soft music, it’s time to dive in and enjoy the process. Now just like yoga, Tantric sex revolves around the breath. Start by taking a full breath and visualize pushing the breath down through your pelvis, knees, and floor. The breathing technique helps you feel closer to each other. Similarly, there’s eye contact, romantic partners should focus on each other while looking into each other's eyes and feeling the love.

Massages & Body Movements

Rushing into things is a no-no here, so throw the thought of a quickie out of your mind. Start by lying down with your partner and slowly involve touching. We recommend trying a variety of touches - firm massage, light feathery touches, and gentle stroking. Giving each other mini erotic massages will surely heighten the senses that you're building to a peak but not taking all the way. The key is to leisurely make way around the body. While observing the body movements of your partner, you can also include feathers, silk, hot wax, or ice to create different sensations.

Positions

The quintessential Tantric Sex position is Yab-Yum, and by the end of this, it might also become your favorite too. Since Tantric Sex is bringing a new dimension into your sex life, it should involve something fancy. This position helps in developing the most powerful tantric love connection. Here the male partner would sit cross-legged and the female would climb on top and put her legs around his body. Since you are close in this position it makes it easy to synchronize breath and align energies. Other great positions that can also be tried are The Snake Trap, The Swing, Goddess Pose, Third Eye Bliss & more. Trust us, you will feel on top of the world.

The Best: Delaying Orgasms

Sex experts have believed delaying the orgasms intensifies the entire experience. Before we dive in and understand the point of delaying orgasm, it simply means you submit yourself to the brink of having one, only to back off and delay it. When with your partner, the couple can take turns and can move towards the climax, slide back down, and then move toward orgasm to experience a firework finale. If you ask us, we consider this sexual technique to be better than sex. Delaying will just build the ability to last longer and the pleasure can keep on growing. If you’re still wondering why you should give Tntraic Sex a try, well simply because it will release all your sexual blocks and help develop a holistic mind-body-spirit connection with yourself and with your partner.

From the December 2022 issue of FHM India.